Psalm 130 has long been the psalm I identify with most.
I resonate with the psalmist crying from the depth of the heart.
As one who served in the military, I have experienced the twice repeated phrase “more than those who watch for morning, more than those who watch for morning.”
I love the modern expression of the song by Sinead O’Connor.
But while this psalm is an old favorite, this week I have noticed something new.
In verse 7 Israel is invited to put its hope in the Lord, because with the Lord there is “steadfast love”. Steadfast love sounds good on its own: a love that is not conditional and doesn’t wax and wane like our love of a favorite song or restaurant.
But this is only the surface of it. The word translated steadfast love is the Hebrew word hesed which means mutuality.
If there is one thing I’ve learned in ministry it is the power of mutuality.
It was including homeless people in on the creation and weekly leadership of Community of Hope that made it work.
Mutuality is at the core of the United Methodist Church’s focus area of ministry WITH the poor.
Mutuality is the secret sauce that makes Church and Community Development for All People a place of ever growing relationships and expanding programming. Within the Fresh Market and the Free Store it is impossible to tell from racial or socioeconomic background who is provider and who is recipient.
Mutuality is more than a management concept to involve people from the bottom up in order to create diverse community. Mutuality is who God is.
God is in the cry from the depth of the heart. God is equally present in the broken heart of divorce as in the joyful heart of newborn parents. God is as much in the mud covered eyes of the blind, the leper, the addict, and the prostitute as God is in the faithful church goer.
When we are willing to put aside our ego and be vulnerable enough to share ourselves with others, the God of mutuality is moving. When we are humble enough to admit we don’t have all the answers and open our heart in prayer, the God of mutuality speaks. When we look at others asking what we can give instead of how we can receive, the God of mutuality provides.
I am often asked, what is the greatest asset of our community. Every time I respond by saying, relationships. It is in the mutuality of people who look out for each other and care for each other and support each other that the peaceable kingdom grows. The mutuality of God’s love is what forms us and shapes us and leads us forward.
We find God in serving the other, because the God of mutuality found us “out of the depths”; and, when we are willing to go down in the depths with others we find the God is mutuality is there.